SPICE OF LIFE!!!
Aahh…feels so good to write again for my blog…why do exams come in between!!!Any ways part of life…before coming to my topic would thanks some people who encouraged me to write this one. Thanks a lot Kanuj bhaiya and Asmita singh(one of my close friends in college).She provided me with the topic unknowingly..And last but not the least my last semester subject HUMAN VALUES: p …A day before the exam…she said: u know “STRESS, THE SPICE OF LIFE”..ohh..She quoted well I thought.And I waited till today to publish it here..
So coming to stress now. What actually it is? Why do people suffer with it? Do we have proper cure for the same n blah blah blah…should I start defining it the way it was defined in my human values book..aasan baat nai thi..28 chapters they poorey..aadhey din me ek baar reading maar li thi..hehehehe:D ,though my friend said “tu nai pass hogi ismein..values naam ki toe cheez hai nai…”Unfortunately iskey marks nai count hongey hahahahha.after reading this much I guess you must have forgotten about your stress for a while?? Did u?? Think?????I hope so..Well the only intention of mine for narrating all this story which was not at all required here was just distracting my reader’s mind who might be suffering from some or the other kind of stress. Everyone here has a particular task to perform and so the stress concerned with the same. We need to face it!! Cant escape..the difference lies in the way we deal with the situation. The choice is ours..whether to live with joy or a stressful life.it better to choose the first one I suppose (no body is against me I hope).Being a student I face many tough situations but me and my friends just make humors of every possible thing and we do overcome with all the difficulties (bus ek cheez ka kabhi mazak nai bnaya,wo top secret!!!! Hehehhe).
The stress could be of any kind, be it exams related,job related,stress between couples(for them would suggest go and read Hindustan times of Christmas day,my favorite columnist ,miss Sonal kalra came out with the nice column reagarding this.)so until and unless we keep focusssing on the problems we wont we able to ever overcome with this issue rather would suffer more. In case of stress do speak out about your problem with the very closed one who actually would understand it, don’t share it with the one who makes fun of it instead (many do soo,believe me).sharing your problems makes one relaxed and in some cases you may get the solution even. Alone thinking and imaging the worst of it can lead to worst situations ahead.
Pta h meri book mein aise subtopics diye thy under the topic STERSS
1.DEFINITION
2.CAUSES
3.EFFECTS
4.CURE
And many subheadings under that..while I was going through it,I imagined..kya bakwass di h..stress bhi kuch hota h kya..agar hai bhi toe kya some points given over here are the real causes,does it effect only these five or six ways,can it be really cured by these given points.But being helpless ,I had to vomit out all these bakwass in my answer sheet.Mujhey pass jo hona hai .poor Indian examination trend!!!
The word was discovered by man itself and so the cause and cure for it.Stress is nothing until and unless you give birth to it yourself.So next time you heading towards it,just go and speak your heart out,it works.(agar mera koi dost ise padh raha h.plzz mere pass mat aana :D :P .just kidding..I am always there. J).
Read somewhere “if I live ,I enjoy,if I die ,who cares” TRUE!!!!..so mazey me jee hi lo..marney se kya milega..koi poochega bhi nai…….
Keep smiling J J,My last post of this year..happy new year,have a nice year ahead …
