A POST OVER MY FRIEND'S SUGGESTION..... :)

When was over with my third post, got first comment of  one of  my friend.Thanked him as at least he took his time to read it ,since many of us ignore reading these long blogs.In return he suggested something very interesting to me.n so my this post is because of his idea.Thanks to Dhruv Singh.(my classmate since 5th standard till 10th standard)

Well he suggested me to explain all my hillarious n precious moments I have have spent till now and evento tell what I used to think about my friends that time.So here I will share some of my special moments since last eight years( best part of my life,as mentioned earlier too).

Starting with the day I joined the place called Unchahar(my father's working place).I was a primary class child.Standard fifth.Day one in the school.The only girl I knew was Madhumita Chandra.Entered the class and kept my bag over the seat, as many students didn't arrived till that time.I was a bit earlier,my first day of course,unknowingly I was in the boys row(big deal that time).As the first guy entered he showed some expressions which was enough for me to understand that I was in the wrong place.Well shifted to the new desk.I thought for a while as if I was an alien entered the class as all the students of other sections were staring at me like anything.well by now the only girl I knew was sitting with me,made me quite comfortable.Then after the assembly had a small introduction and the day was good.after some days when our sanskrit teacher(Mr.Ved Prakash,our class. teacher,was on leave when I joined) arrived he asked me the simplest conversion one can ever answer,but I wasn't able to(i was very new to the subject) n the whole class laughed at me like hell.(most embarrassing ).The friends I made were Madhumita Chanrda(was a great supporter that time),Akanksha Bhatt(met her friend during kathak classes in bal bhavan),Priya Rohtagi(was always afraid of her,dont know why!!!),Kavya Gupta(I thought she was never intersetd in friendship with me),Sumi yadav(never noticed her much that time),Pragati gupta(very silent girl),Chetsi dubey(remember her first smile),Aatikah(sweet girl),Sachi Shukla,Shubhra Mishra,Priya Shukla(they joined the school with me,can understand their sitution).No boys since it was a big thing making boys as your friend at that age

.The same year I was appointed as the head girl of my house(students were divide into four houses,honesty, sincerity,freedom,friendship.mine was sincerity!!).Thanks to Ishwari ma'am Ved prakash sir n the most Saariah,my classmate(he was the one to suggest my name first  :)  ).I remember my first my photo session with my house.Me (head girl),Ankur gupta(head boy),Madhumita chandra(deputy head girl) and Dalwinder singh(deputy head boy) with Ishwari ma'am n Ved prakash sir.The school magazine is still there with me where the photo was printed !!! :)

Buy the time I was becoming succesful in making new friends., announcement of class shuffling was announced,Bad news for me!! :(.After the summer vacations we were told to be according to the new arrangement .Again lucy me!!!,Madhumita still accompanied me.Sumi,Sachi.Pragati were also there.(I was happy Priya n Kavya were in other sections).One thing that always cached my interest in earlier section was U.P.the girls especilly used to utter this abbreviation a lot and being the new one I wasnt able to understand. Later I came to know they all used to make fun of Priya and Uma shankar(one of my class mates),was quite an interesting thing for me.hehehhehe.....(umashankar.dont yell at me after reading this,,plzzzzzzzzz) 

Now it was the time for annual spots day(me very bad at spots)still cud grab a third prize snatching the tail(my mom laughed over the event much.I was little dissapointed  :( ).The december time now and it was Annual day of the school.One of my teacher(Mrs.Alka Rohtagi),she selected me for distributing prizes over the ceremony and I was told to be in lehnga with a tray decorated(today I think what a stupid job she gave me and I did it even).I wasn't there in the list of prize winners still the whole crowd saw me.woowwwwwww!!!  huh!!!

Coming out of school I remember ,once I was playing in the park with Akanksha Bhatt n others(i m not able to recollect).Beside us Uma shankar prasad was standing with his cycle.(red one).Don 't know why we hit his cycle by a small stone and then what he took the pipe(which was in the park for watering plants)and made us wet by that.We were not that innocent.His house was very near and we complained about him to his brother(he used to stay with him,not his parents).After that what must have happened to him only he can explain...hhehheheh..hahhaaaha...still feel very sorry for this incident.Shouldn't have done that.well but no sorry to him.He an IITian guy now(presently he in IIT kharakpur  :))He is one of my closest friend now(will explain later how did we became friends)

Oh my god .....I never thought that I will write this much about the single class..its much.My std 6th and 7th were quite monotonous...I wont mention...next is class 8th.(wowwwww..one of my favorite years).It needs a lot to explain.........

So soo..the next post would be about my 8th stnadard.I m not good at editing,can't cut short my years in the one or two paragraphs.....Even my readers would get bored reading that much all at a time.And this way even I wont have to think much for a new topic.Everytime some one is not going to suggest me the new topic.I know...heheheh...

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TO BE CONTINUED :)  Till then enjoy this...........

wooww..skul lfy ROKSSSSS....

FRIENDS.....only in memories or staying in touch..

Well a third post of mine
.Today while going for my class was there in the bus...1hour sitting beside the window seat and trees passing by..The things which pop up in my mind I write it over here... though not everything.I cant...

As we grow older we meet many people in our life.Some good some bad..Me being lucky.Most of the people I met...they were good.Again its your  own perception of how you see the person.We often find mistakes quite easily...i m very good at this!!!! but appreciating some one's qualities is more harder....  well coming to my point now..

Since I met many people..so do I made many friends in my life till date..my Facebook friend list contains 377 now..ohh my god..do i know these many people!!!!   quite difficult to handle.. huh!!  Amongst these some might me very close,some just good friends,some only online friends etc etc etc..

Since my childhood I changed three schools so many friends.When was too small this never came to mind that once I will leave the place,  will I ever meet them ..or would even be there in touch with any of them.When this this situation first time.I cried for a while and then my parents said..beta nai jagah naye dost mil jayengey.Was that so easy...may be yes..may be no.....still don't know!! life never stops.And again new friends .But did I ever forget my those friends of nursery ,l.k.g classes..never...our fancy dress competion(me dressed up as Chandrasekhar azaad :)) ,rakhabandhan pics of school were always in my photo album.

Again my father's transfer n a new place and a new school.It was now more harder to leave them as I passed 4 yrs with all.....can't ever forget d way we taught cycle riding to one of my friend,one bucket filled with water and many pichkarees to be filled,selecting the same colour pens when it came to return gifts in birthday parties, analyzing the colour of boy's t shirt in painting competition(kaun sa colour kia hai ...)etc etc etc...
i was so easily told to leave all this and just keep this in my memories.....should I?????at this time...not so easy.Took contact numbers of my friends fathre's or their PNT phone numbers(since mobiles were not so common).Told each other to be in touch through letters and calls.At class 5th my mind could think all that..great!!!!!!


A new place now.Really would say met  nice people over this place.They all accepted me very easily.I started enjoying with them.well I can say these past 8 years were best part of my life.School trips, annual functions,annual sports day(which was converted to spots week soon), preparations of class magazines,being class monitor and giving complains of  those whom I dint liked and saving my friends  :) ,all kind of politics(was normally involved in many),antaksharis in free classes,quiz time(boys used to won intelligent huh!!!)calling each other to know their results,our so called class parties(which always turned boring because of my class boys,quite shy) my first dream which came true,anchoring my annual function(thanks to my principal ,staff members n friends )etc etc etc...and here came the end of my schooling.now college time.No  actually no...I dint want to leave them..they all valued much for me.esp some of them.But was not possible.All went to different places again with a promise of being in contact.

But but...while I was busy enjoying my new place did I ever cared to write letters to those old ones  yes!! but only in the starting period,how may times did i called on their PNT numbers..twice or thrice..not much I guess.well I dint even received many.Did that meant that I no more remember them....??????well no..

Now when all in college,we with our own phone numbers.Its quite an easy task to stay in touch...is it so..????hmmmmm......need to really think about this. Actually we do get busy much with our own life schedule and remaining in touch is not that easy,but not that difficult if we want to.We do say "i m busy".But the reality is we always take out the time for what we actually want to do(i don't know how many of you would agree with me).

I m really thankful to the communication services which provides message packs at reasonable rates and special thaks to Facebook through which i came again in touch with all those I left far back.After l.k.g.today I know  that who all are studying what n where.Today I m in touch with all my friends starting from nursery to 12th.lucky me :) .

Today in the evening when I was siting with my old friends( me in my home during vacations) and were discussing all the stupid activities..it was actually great..........i mean really great.

Well in my point of view how hard you are busy with your life, taking out small time of yours n staying in touch with your close ones is much important.It adds joy to our life rather becoming self centered.really. Keeping my best people I met only in memories is not my cup of tea.

Life is great.Live it.Love it.And do cherish the days you passed.  :)

FRIENDS..... WHY AN IMPORTANT PART!!!!!

Well passed 18 fruitful years of my life.....still want to know that whether having friends is that important??

As much I remember...when I started my studies ....my kindergarten school....the place where I wanted to show all my talents....my biggest wish... teachers the biggest fear..and home works the ultimate tasksss...well from there i got some friends...dint knew what friendship was all about...in the name of friendship ..just knew..the girl whom i am comfortable in sitting with...could share my lunch box with her..can accompany her when it comes to sharing my birthday toffees,can give her my pencil rubbers when was asked by her...n so on...the list goes on...

School changed...not even a last bye to those friends....but were always their in the memories...a little more sensible now...now in the name of friends...the same desk,taking part in same school activities,each others lunch box,discussing home works on phones,eyes on clock for 5:30pm n all in a single park,same dance classes...........n the ultimate...MY COMPETITOR.......

Again...had to leave.....but dis time..met everyone..last night cry,gud wishes,gifts exchange,n MY FAREWELL.. really thanks to all those who did that great effort at such a small age.....more mature now.......
Starting point of my confusion...it took much hard to make new friends....but got some as the time passed...may be was there in the teenage n so all the questions were now popping up in my mind.....

well now teachers made us to sit us with our class guys..which we hated to our core...we fought with them like anything..BOYS vs GIRLS...n the universal truth GIRLS D BEST!!! :) many school trips,school functions..we all worked together..in the mean while when i was blessed with so many friends even i dint came to know...but but but..kassh itna hi smooth chalta sabkuch.........now friends used to get jealous if were appreciated for some work,some of us had a selfish attitude,to some I was unable to understand....they were quite complicated, misunderstandings ...a very used to thing.....some ditched me..I cheated some one......soriii  
:(  my full n final decision....wont ever talk........but it was good that i couldn't stand on those..those were just for months or two.....filled with ego..all negativity...  :( .....many left...some stayed.......those were in touch who went...n those who were in front of my eyes.....ego shouted....Y SHOULD I!!!!.......
well enough now........don't need any friends from now......all are same...no one is really mine...DO HELL WITH THIS PLACE N PEOPLE OVER HERE.........GUD BYE....wanted to forget everything...all the sweetest memories I gathered with them..........  no more....freindship jaisa kuch nai hota........
WAS I WRONG...i don't know.....

entered into a new phase of my life......ooooooohh..I m a college student now..college(the coolest place in our dreams...)reality is just opposite.......came in touch with new people....it was much harder to understand who was good n who was not.....my every single step..was marked...need to be much careful....I started missing my old friends... :( came to a conclusion....wai sab jyada achey they.......But as the time passed...got some good ones even there........ enjoyed my first year in btech  :)...

But again...the series of hurting each other loving each other...never endss...........it goes on....

never loose ur friendsss....................................

When its so COMPLICATED ..to handle the emotions,friends all at the same tymm....then whyyyy....FRIENDS AN IMPORTANT PART?????????

THANKS EVERYONE.......

My thanks to oll my skulmates with whum I shared my past swt 8 years of my life........ds is for ol u guyss.........hope u oll lyk ds.......

                                       

Thanks evry1 for makng my yrs so special..

It was gr8 being wd u oll….loitrng here n dr…

Frm a kid to teenage gal..

Saw much n found how life could b bright n dull

Hav many cherishing moments wd each n evry1.

Sum r lovely n sum made me to  thnk…Now hr  d end has come.

Thanks evry1….

Got sum reeli close frnds amongst u oll…

Sum stl wd me n to sum I thnk 100tymes evn to gv a simple call

Yrs pass, thngs change, n d  ppl do…..

Bt sumthng stl in d mind….

R d swtst memories…u ol gave me..reeeli thanku…

Thanks evry1…..

A yr apart frm my lovabl matess…….

Sum lonely hrs take me bak into  dose particular dates.

Tried hard 2 wash away all d days…

Bt coudnt cum out of my class my art rum..d talks in our own ways…

Thanks evry1……

D functns of skul dosnt matr much….

Bt d prepratns v did….d way v were involvd….

Has taken a special palce in heart n  mind…..

Thanks evry1……..

Days wr bst  wen  faces wr soo innocent

No hard feelings…a smile dint tuk ny rent…

Tym made lyf complctd ..

Bt u oll made it d way I wnted…

Thanks evry1….

Reeli miss u olla lott..

Wl keep missing…

Hoping for d day…

Wen wl c u ol in d same place  same corridors..

REELII…FRM D BOTTOM OF MY HEART..

THANKS EVRYONE….

LUV A LOTT……  J