FRIENDS.....only in memories or staying in touch..

Well a third post of mine
.Today while going for my class was there in the bus...1hour sitting beside the window seat and trees passing by..The things which pop up in my mind I write it over here... though not everything.I cant...

As we grow older we meet many people in our life.Some good some bad..Me being lucky.Most of the people I met...they were good.Again its your  own perception of how you see the person.We often find mistakes quite easily...i m very good at this!!!! but appreciating some one's qualities is more harder....  well coming to my point now..

Since I met many people..so do I made many friends in my life till date..my Facebook friend list contains 377 now..ohh my god..do i know these many people!!!!   quite difficult to handle.. huh!!  Amongst these some might me very close,some just good friends,some only online friends etc etc etc..

Since my childhood I changed three schools so many friends.When was too small this never came to mind that once I will leave the place,  will I ever meet them ..or would even be there in touch with any of them.When this this situation first time.I cried for a while and then my parents said..beta nai jagah naye dost mil jayengey.Was that so easy...may be yes..may be no.....still don't know!! life never stops.And again new friends .But did I ever forget my those friends of nursery ,l.k.g classes..never...our fancy dress competion(me dressed up as Chandrasekhar azaad :)) ,rakhabandhan pics of school were always in my photo album.

Again my father's transfer n a new place and a new school.It was now more harder to leave them as I passed 4 yrs with all.....can't ever forget d way we taught cycle riding to one of my friend,one bucket filled with water and many pichkarees to be filled,selecting the same colour pens when it came to return gifts in birthday parties, analyzing the colour of boy's t shirt in painting competition(kaun sa colour kia hai ...)etc etc etc...
i was so easily told to leave all this and just keep this in my memories.....should I?????at this time...not so easy.Took contact numbers of my friends fathre's or their PNT phone numbers(since mobiles were not so common).Told each other to be in touch through letters and calls.At class 5th my mind could think all that..great!!!!!!


A new place now.Really would say met  nice people over this place.They all accepted me very easily.I started enjoying with them.well I can say these past 8 years were best part of my life.School trips, annual functions,annual sports day(which was converted to spots week soon), preparations of class magazines,being class monitor and giving complains of  those whom I dint liked and saving my friends  :) ,all kind of politics(was normally involved in many),antaksharis in free classes,quiz time(boys used to won intelligent huh!!!)calling each other to know their results,our so called class parties(which always turned boring because of my class boys,quite shy) my first dream which came true,anchoring my annual function(thanks to my principal ,staff members n friends )etc etc etc...and here came the end of my schooling.now college time.No  actually no...I dint want to leave them..they all valued much for me.esp some of them.But was not possible.All went to different places again with a promise of being in contact.

But but...while I was busy enjoying my new place did I ever cared to write letters to those old ones  yes!! but only in the starting period,how may times did i called on their PNT numbers..twice or thrice..not much I guess.well I dint even received many.Did that meant that I no more remember them....??????well no..

Now when all in college,we with our own phone numbers.Its quite an easy task to stay in touch...is it so..????hmmmmm......need to really think about this. Actually we do get busy much with our own life schedule and remaining in touch is not that easy,but not that difficult if we want to.We do say "i m busy".But the reality is we always take out the time for what we actually want to do(i don't know how many of you would agree with me).

I m really thankful to the communication services which provides message packs at reasonable rates and special thaks to Facebook through which i came again in touch with all those I left far back.After l.k.g.today I know  that who all are studying what n where.Today I m in touch with all my friends starting from nursery to 12th.lucky me :) .

Today in the evening when I was siting with my old friends( me in my home during vacations) and were discussing all the stupid activities..it was actually great..........i mean really great.

Well in my point of view how hard you are busy with your life, taking out small time of yours n staying in touch with your close ones is much important.It adds joy to our life rather becoming self centered.really. Keeping my best people I met only in memories is not my cup of tea.

Life is great.Live it.Love it.And do cherish the days you passed.  :)