CAUGHT IN A BAD ROMANCE???

A big big hiee to all my readers,post of mine after a long time and credits Tanmay Goel(again school friend)  who reminded me of it.

What topic I should write in was again a tough question in mind. So a thought came of writing a situation where many of us get caught without any way to escape or get out with a desired outcome. May or may not be my this blog would come out with a fruitful solution but hopefully you going to enjoy the complexity discussed over here(wow I personally love it!!!)

In the words below I have tried my best to pen down the romance of friendship which  was at the same time most enjoyable as well as painful(again depends how you look over the situation)

Friends,priorities,care ..words which do have different values in each and every individual. May be for me they are big words, may be for somebody else they are mere next big thing of fun.

Every individual is associated with some or the other people they meet in their life because of some reason (I do believe that),within those people, some get too close to our heart and some have a casual existence. Its bit easy to deal with people who have a casual existence in our life but complexity makes its appearance as and when it comes to our close ones may be because we have some expectations and emotions attached.(small words with big danger in life).Sharing your day and night with somebody you are closed to ,having expectations or having a unknown bond is a no big deal(everybody at some point get his/her “closed one”)

But consider a situation where you have a person in your life whom you consider your closest(for many reasons like somebody was great support when you needed most, somebody understands your unspoken words and many more)but at the same time you are not the person to whom that person is closest to(may be you are his/her’s  second priority in life).The word “second”, yes really painfull.It pinches to the core.Not a thing which everybody can digest.The situation has not completed here, it has its one more phase, whom you consider as your life’s second priority, for the same person you are his/her’s first..Confused, perplexed???(Anyways I became while writing so.:P) .now in nutshell it’s a situation like

“You need somebody, and somebody needs you, where to go???”

Managing both at the same time???(not my cup of tea!!!)

In a helpless hapless situation!!!

Why did I wrote the situation was both painful as well as enjoyable.You when face such kind of situation actually examine trust and faith build between you and somebody else and believe me analyzing the results makes it both painful (since you would get disappointed by harsh truths) and you would enjoy it(since you have something which is making your life less monotonous.)

But yes I would say in the journey of handling relations one must never forget the responsibilities and the main objective of his/her life to which he/she is concerned with. Giving relations its utmost importance and forgetting other aims is a bad step. Let not relations dominate your design, dream and ambition of your life.

I haven’t come up with the solution yet.What has to be done and where to go..

In my opinion I would go to place where I am needed since to whom I need would never ever give his/her full to me.He /she would have a part to share. On the other hand the person who needs me would give hi/her full at the same time I would reciprocate in the same manner. This would make good for all the three who are entangled in a bad romance of unknown or known relation.

I don’t know how much did I justify the emotions behind the title with my words but yes thanks to Lady GAGA whose song suggested me a apt title for this post of mine.

Hope you have understood the passion, sentiment and sophistication behind the words. Would be coming with a new post soon.(lets see who would be the next inspiring me :P).

Thanks .take care.